Should You Have a Casual Hook Up?
Watch a Man Shift and Rise as He Feels Needed
I am an independent and ambitious woman with a mind of my own. I make my own decisions and am in control. But that same sense of control can spill into relationships.
Men Want to Feel Needed
Let Yourself Soften in a Relationship
When I exhibit control in my relationships, I am in action mode. I am not keeping myself open to receiving. I have noticed one thing about myself when I do this. I become too closed and keep strong boundaries in place.
My inner self becomes hard. Why not let myself soften and open myself more up to him? Embrace my sensual, feminine side. This way, I can be more receptive to him.
Allow the Man to be A Man
Let him be a man. Let him serenade you and make you feel desired and protected. Give him the joy of doing things for you if he wants to. For example: I dated men who insisted on paying for our meals and dates most of the time.
I cringed. I didn’t want him to pay. I would insist on paying or at least splitting the bill. But he wouldn’t let me. I realized why couldn’t I sit back and let him do it. He wanted to do it.
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Watch Him Rise as He is Needed
And when he did it, he was filled with joy. His face just glowed. This is a simple example, but as a woman, you must soften up and allow him to be a man. He will rise as he is needed. And he will adore you 🙂
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How to Live Consciously So You Don’t Drift in Your Life
Living consciously is a life style. It’s a way of living your life consciously on a daily basis. It also means not drifting through life. When you begin to focus on your heart’s desires and creating happiness, you are becoming more aware of your decisions and actions.
Live Consciously
Reflect On Your Life
Think about your life everyday. Reflect on how your day went and think about the experiences that are bringing you happiness and satisfaction. Reflect on what areas you want to improve. When you reflect, you are more aware of how your choices affect your well-being.
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Examine Your Relationships
Are your relationships bringing you satisfaction? Do you feel fulfilled? If the answer is no, then think about why. If yes, then you should examine whether you appreciate them enough. Do you communicate clearly? Consciously thinking about all these aspects will help you to have uplifting relationships.
How do You Spend Your Time?
You analyze how much money you are using and make budgets. Why not do the same for your time? Time can be more valuable than money. It keeps moving and does not wait for you. Are you spending your time doing what you love? Are you living a balanced life?
Explore Yourself and Have Life Adventures
I love traveling and am considering have adventures in exotic places. But traveling is not the only way to have adventures. Cooking a brand new recipe in the kitchen can be exciting.
How do you live consciously? Please share with me in the comments.
Being Feminine is About Listening and Receiving from Yourself
Most people mistake that feminine energy is about being a doormat. It’s about being submissive. But that is not the case at all. Being feminine means being comfortable in your own skin.
Feminine Energy and Receiving from Yourself
It Means Not Taking Meaningless Action, But INSPIRED Action
It means not forcing yourself to be in action mode. It means balancing the need to take action and listening to your intuition. When you are guided by the magical pull of your heart’s energy, then you are going to be led to take the right action.
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Receive Gifts of Happiness and Peace from Yourself
I see too many people looking for inner peace from external things. They do everything, except turn inward. That peace of mind keeps eluding them. Because they keep telling themselves “I’ll be happy when…” And they keep filling in the next words.
If you can look inward regardless of what is going on around you and truly listen to your heart’s desires and heart beats, you will find all the answers are available at your fingertips.
Embracing Your Emotional Side
Femininity also means letting yourself feel what you want to feel. Not pushing away your emotions. Letting yourself feel intensely and completely. Accepting that you are a human with a range of emotions. You will become more connected to yourself by unleashing your feelings.
How do you listen and receive from yourself? Please share with me in the comments.
You Deserve a Good Man and Are Worthy of a Beautiful, Healthy Love
Do you believe you are worthy of a beautiful, healthy love? Ask yourself this question gently. Be honest to yourself. And are your actions aligning with your beliefs?
Do You Deserve a Healthy, Beautiful Love?
Your Thoughts and Beliefs Are Driving Your Actions
I said I deserved a good man, but did I really believe it? No, I didn’t. It was like a far fetched dream. And what was I receiving in return? Not the right man.
I could keep blaming the men in my life. To tell you the truth, they do have a role to play. They had brought in their own baggage and it affected me. But what about me? Why I was I attracting those men into my life?
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Because I Didn’t Believe I was Worthy of a Great, Healthy Love
I had to stop shifting my responsibility to the man I was seeing. If he didn’t fit into what I wanted in a man, then I needed to reexamine why I was with him.
If I wanted a healthy, great love, then I had to believe it NOW. It was the only way for the perfect, right man to enter my life.
If I feel only 70 % good, then only 70 % greatness would come to me. Once I fill the rest, then a pure, ever lasting love can come to me.
I would rather not date for the heck of it anymore. I don’t regret my past experiences, rather I feel immensely thankful and blessed for having them. I am not closing my heart at all. I am keeping my heart open because I want to marry the love of my life. Someone who brings out my best and with whom I can share a healthy relationship.
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