There is a sexy and sensual side in every woman. You do not need to be Angelina Jolie or Beyonce to experience your beauty and sexiness.

I see too many women around me who feel they aren’t sexy enough. Sexiness is not about what you’re wearing or how little you’re wearing. It’s about how you feel.

No matter what you wear or how much makeup you apply

If you don’t feel this inside, you won’t feel it on the outside. I didn’t always feel this way, but I do feel I am a sexy woman because I have self-respect, am intelligent, and believe in being the best version of myself.

Here are 3 signs which may indicate you feel you’re not sexy enough…

You want to change your dressing style

Now it’s perfectly alright to want to change or enhance your style. But what I mean is the motivation behind changing the dressing style is because you don’t feel happy inside and you feel you will be perceived as sexy when you do change it.

But that feeling won’t change no matter what you wear. Practice producing the feeling inside.

You tell yourself you’re not sexy or pretty enough

In your head, you say you’re not sexy or pretty enough. You may not even realize you’re doing this because it’s become a habit ingrained in you.

Look at photos of yourself and criticize your body

You cringe when you see your photos. In some cases, you may even not like looking at your photos at all.

Produce the feeling of feeling sexy and beautiful inside. You can be wearing pajamas and still be sexy as hell if you feel it inside.

Why do you feel you are sexy or not sexy enough? Please share with me in the comments.

I feel delighted to be a woman. I have the opportunity to be so many things. I get to be the sexy woman, the caring one, sweet one, feisty one, etc. You name it, and I can do it. I don’t think men get away with playing so many roles like we women.

Use All Your Senses

Often, women dress sexily, but don’t give equal attention to their other senses. A truly sensual woman knows how to use all her senses as weapons to exude wild sensuality. The kind that a man can’t help, but fall mysteriously in love with…

Show the perfect amount of skin.

Show a hint of your upper body, leaving just enough covered. Or show off your toned legs without going overboard. Let a man’s eyes linger there, but make him wonder what else there is…

Direct eye contact.

Look him straight in the eye when you’re speaking to him. One thing I do is I look at him directly, making him a tad uncomfortable with my directness, and then I look away with a hint of a smile. It drives him wild…

Body Language.

Women love the masculinity in men. In the same way, men love our femininity. Stand straight and relax your shoulders. Lean in a tad when you talk to him. Move gracefully.

Touch him lightly.

One of my best tricks is to brush my hand lightly against his arm, shoulders, or thigh. It works every single time! It’s not overtly sexual, yet it create sparks.

Wear a sexy perfume.

I never knew the value of perfume until I was complimented several times. When a guy kissed me, the first thing he told me  afterwards was he loved how I smelled. Never underestimate the power of a seductive perfume!

How do you exude wild sensuality? Please share with me in the comments!

Sex is a major component of romance and relationships. At a certain point, the question of sex creeps into the equation. Every woman has to deal with this question. What do you do when your partner says he is ready for sex? What do you do if you’re not yet ready? How do you communicate your desires?

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Communicate, Communicate, & Communicate!

Ladies, this is the most important thing to do when you’re in a relationship or  dating! You must communicate your desires and emotions to your romantic partner. Sex is not something to be taken lightly and you should never shy away from telling your partner any fears or hesitations you may have about sex.

Whether you decide to engage in sexual activity or be a virgin, you should be true to who you are.

An Indicator of the Guy’s Quality

Consider this scenario: You’re dating a guy who has significant experience in the sexual arena. But you are a virgin. You feel you don’t want to disappoint the guy, but you also only want to do things you’re comfortable with. You tell the guy and he reacts.

If he reacts in an understanding, compassionate manner, then it shows his maturity and the fact that he appreciates you expressing your feelings. Relationships are exactly about that. They’re about communicating and being there for each other.

And if he doesn’t respond in this manner and instead becomes aggressive, angry, or upset, then it may indicate he is not the right person for you.

Sex requires patience and understanding and should be done only when both partners are physically and emotionally ready.

 

How would you deal with the situation if your partner was ready for sex, but not you? Please share with me in the comments.