Did you start dating a guy and the experience was magical? Did he call you repeatedly and treat you like you a total princess? Did you shower you with attention? You probably thought everything was perfect. You had met The One.

But suddenly, he doesn’t call as much…

He doesn’t pay as much attention to you. He doesn’t seem as intrigued by you. You’re left confused.

You’re On Edge

Your heart knows something is not right. You try to get him back to his old behavior. You want him to look at you with that look in his eyes. The one where no woman exists on the planet other than you.

You start to become nervous. Instead of having a honest talk, you start to harden. You don’t want to admit your vulnerability to him. You don’t want to admit how much you care for him.

Instead, You’re Over Analyzing

You analyze every word he says to you. You look closely for any expression on his face that may reveal any reasons. You’re a confident, busy woman otherwise, but it all goes away for some reason now. Your schedule is wide open for him.

I Have Been in this Situation Before

What do you do? Ladies, the number #1 thing you can do is: Keep your options open. Let me say this again: KEEP YOUR OPTIONS OPEN!

If your man is behaving this way, have a honest talk with him. But along with that, start considering other men. You deserve the full attention of your man. Not any hot or cold behavior. Don’t make excuses for his behavior.

Either, he will realize his feelings for you and do what it takes to win you over. If he doesn’t, then he wasn’t worthy enough for you in the first place. Either way, you should ALWAYS put yourself first.

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Have you had this experience? What did you do? Please share with me in the comments.