About a year ago, I felt stuck in my life. I felt I wasn’t getting anywhere in my writing career, romantic relationships, finances, and more.

How did I get out of that state of feeling?

Simple! Well, the steps are actually simple, but to implement them takes practice and lots of awareness on your part. So here I go! I want to share these three specific steps I took to change my life for the better.

Started Focusing on the Life I Wanted

I used to focus on what I didn’t have or what I could have. This is the biggest lesson I have learned actually. I started thinking about the life I wanted and visualizing it all the time. The more I thought about it, the more I took action (even subconsciously)  that was aligned to my vision.

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Worked on my Internal Self and Listened to My Love-driven Energy

Another huge thing I did was I stopped doing whatever I was doing at the time. It was clear a major transformation was needed to put my and my family’s lives together. But before I could help my family or boyfriend or friend, I had to help myself first.

So I started changing how I felt about myself. I started to become quieter in my head so I could let my love-fueled energy guide me.

Assumed the Positive and Saw the Hidden Lesson

I only thought positive thoughts and assumed the best (most of the time!). And if still things didn’t happen the way I wanted, I saw the hidden lesson and surrendered to it. I had faith that whatever happened was the best for me at the time and would take me to where I wanted.

Do you feel stuck in your life? What is your biggest takeaway from this post? Please share with me in the comments.